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How to navigate conflict with a coworker

Separate the observed work problem from assumptions about the person.

Choose a suitable channel, ask for context and propose a specific working agreement. The sign-off example below is for an ordinary coordination issue; serious misconduct may require a different process.

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Start with three things you can do today

A starting goal

I want to handle tension with a colleague without avoiding them or escalating the conflict. Help me understand competing needs and have a constructive conversation.

Change any word so it fits your situation. The course is built from what you type and a few setup questions.

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Three things you can do before the course exists.

Useful on their own. The course is for when you want the whole skill, not just the first move.

Describe a shared work problem
Original example: 'The numbers changed after sign-off, so I rebuilt the deck twice. Can we agree how revisions will be confirmed?' This states an event and a proposed working agreement without guessing the colleague's motive.
Choose a suitable channel
A conversation, written note or facilitated discussion may fit different circumstances. Keep a record where appropriate. Do not assume a private meeting is always safest, or that text always creates conflict.
Check the agreement and the limits
Agree who confirms changes and how affected people will be told. Review whether rework falls, without attributing every change to the conversation. Threats, harassment or serious misconduct call for the appropriate support or reporting process.

Best for: Work relationships
Prerequisites: None. Bring the situation you have.
Course length: 7 to 30 lessons
Pace: Yours. One lesson at a time, as often as you like.
Format: Read it, or play the audio
Access: Available on the App Store and Google Play, with an optional early testing list

Before the course is built

Setup asks about your situation first.

Lesson 1 opens on the moment you describe, and the examples use your role. For this request, expect questions like these.

Is the tension with one person or a pattern with a few?
Is it about how work gets done, about credit, or about something personal that leaked into work?
Do you need to keep working closely with them, or mainly to stop dreading them?

Right for now

If any of this sounds familiar, start here.

You have started avoiding someone

Meetings are rerouted and messages left, and the work is suffering quietly.

It flared once and never settled

One sharp exchange sits between you and colors everything since.

You cannot tell if it is them or you

The dynamic is bad and you do not trust your own read of it.

Course arc

Where the course goes, in order.

Cadence writes the lessons for you, so the exact path follows your answers. This is the ground a course built from this sentence covers.

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What tension is made of

Considering possible sources of tension while checking observations and avoiding unsupported claims about motives.

Your part in it

Checking your own read honestly, without taking all the blame or none.

Avoidance and escalation

Choosing among conversation, written communication and appropriate support based on the situation.

Opening the conversation

Naming the dynamic rather than the person, and inviting their view.

When it stays tense

Working agreements, boundaries and when to involve someone else.

Repairing over time

Small consistent moves that shift a relationship without a grand reconciliation.

What changes

What you will be able to do, and what you will stop believing.

You will be able to

Understand what the tension is about

Describe the observed friction and ask for the context needed to understand it.

Choose to talk, and how

Open a conversation about the dynamic without accusation.

Work together anyway

Agree how you will operate even if you never become friends.

Ideas this course corrects

All tension should be settled face to face

Choose a safe, appropriate channel and support for the circumstances.

You can infer motive from one behavior

Ask for context and describe observable effects rather than diagnosing intention.

Course questions

What to know before you start.

How to navigate conflict with a coworker: what can I do today?

Describe a shared work problem. Original example: 'The numbers changed after sign-off, so I rebuilt the deck twice. Can we agree how revisions will be confirmed?' This states an event and a proposed working agreement without guessing the colleague's motive. Choose a suitable channel. A conversation, written note or facilitated discussion may fit different circumstances. Keep a record where appropriate. Do not assume a private meeting is always safest, or that text always creates conflict. Check the agreement and the limits. Agree who confirms changes and how affected people will be told. Review whether rework falls, without attributing every change to the conversation. Threats, harassment or serious misconduct call for the appropriate support or reporting process.

Is this a fixed course?

No. Cadence builds the course when you type the sentence and answer a few setup questions, so the lessons follow your situation. This page describes what a course built from this request covers. You see the whole path before Lesson 1.

Who is this course for?

Do I need any prior experience?

No. Setup asks what you already know and where you want to use it, and the course starts from there. Bring a real situation if you have one; the examples are built around it.

How long does it take?

Most courses run 7 to 30 lessons. The course length is sized to what you asked for. You set the pace: one lesson at a time, as often as you like. Lessons can be read or played as audio.

Does this course award a certificate or degree?

No. Cadence is for practical self-learning and does not award accredited degrees or professional certification.